Can you see what it is that you want to achieve? Meaning, in your mind's eye, how clear is your picture of your end result? Taking time to imagine, sense and feel what it will be like when you reach your destination can make the difference between actually actualizing your goal and it becoming yet another dismissed wish.
When something really matters to you, don't skip the imaging step. Having a clear picture in your mind of your outcome can help you to stay focused when the going gets rough and all hope feels like it is gone.
The goal isn't to delude yourself, but rather, work as an anchoring mechanism for where to point your energy. In our day to day lives it is so easy to get distracted from our bigger endeavors that if we don't take the time to really see where we want to be we can and will get lost in the minutia.
So to keep moving FORWARD on this here Friday, take the time if you haven't already to truly paint that picture for yourself of what it will be like when you reach your destination. Take in all the sights, sounds and colors, see who is around you, smell the aromas that fill the air... detail it with all of your senses and then breathe it in. Give it a name and visit it daily for at least the next week to keep it vibrant in your mind.
If you are more of the artsy type, draw it out, make a collage or picture map of it and keep it somewhere you can look at it daily.
After all, "some things have to be believed to be seen."
~ Ralph Hodgson
Keep your dreams alive my friends... and then make them happen!
Heidi
My name is Heidi... I am a licensed professional counselor, EMDR therapist, mother, athlete and dedicated to helping people each and every day reawaken to life. Here you will read about my musings, reflections and thoughts on this crazy thing we call life and how each new moment is an invitation to us all to embrace what is here before us. I hope my writings help to spark a thought, crack a smile or maybe even inspire you to leap into the life that is before you.
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Showing posts with label focus. Show all posts
Friday, September 6, 2013
Friday, August 30, 2013
It's Forward Moving Friday.. "How" are you moving FORWARD today?
It's Forward Moving Friday again... what do you have planned for the weekend that will bring you one step closer to your #1 goal?
If you're not quite sure yet, try this on for size. Maybe this weekend instead of focusing just on the "what" of your goal, focus on the "how". By this I mean the process or quality with which you accomplish your task.
As an example, as many of you know, cycling is my passion and I spend many hours and many days in the saddle. Each day has a specific task that guides me towards my specific goals. And the goals are all very concrete and measurable. The irony though, to me, is that it is the process, state of mind, and "how" of how I approach each workout that truly bring in the results. If I go out on my bike with my head in the tank, thinking about how tired I am or how hard the workout is going to be, what do you think the workout is going to be like? ... well.. umm... HARD.. and probably slow.. and probably not to fun. It is important to consider the "how" when approaching both things that we love and things that maybe we don't love so much. If we can approach all things with an open mind and a little bit of loving energy we are more likely to find success, experience joy and positively impact those around us.
So regardless if you goal is focused on your training, relationship, personal life or work notice "how" you are approaching the task at hand. If you don't like "how" you are approaching the moment, then take a moment, pause, breathe and ask yourself, "how do I want to be approaching this task?" When the answer surfaces, take heed and move into the next moment.
Hope you enjoy the process =]
Heidi
If you're not quite sure yet, try this on for size. Maybe this weekend instead of focusing just on the "what" of your goal, focus on the "how". By this I mean the process or quality with which you accomplish your task.
As an example, as many of you know, cycling is my passion and I spend many hours and many days in the saddle. Each day has a specific task that guides me towards my specific goals. And the goals are all very concrete and measurable. The irony though, to me, is that it is the process, state of mind, and "how" of how I approach each workout that truly bring in the results. If I go out on my bike with my head in the tank, thinking about how tired I am or how hard the workout is going to be, what do you think the workout is going to be like? ... well.. umm... HARD.. and probably slow.. and probably not to fun. It is important to consider the "how" when approaching both things that we love and things that maybe we don't love so much. If we can approach all things with an open mind and a little bit of loving energy we are more likely to find success, experience joy and positively impact those around us.
So regardless if you goal is focused on your training, relationship, personal life or work notice "how" you are approaching the task at hand. If you don't like "how" you are approaching the moment, then take a moment, pause, breathe and ask yourself, "how do I want to be approaching this task?" When the answer surfaces, take heed and move into the next moment.
Hope you enjoy the process =]
Heidi
Labels:
acceptance,
calm,
fitness,
focus,
forward,
healing,
mindfulness
Thursday, December 6, 2012
What's Your Commitment?
So I took the plunge… Yep, day 1 back in the water post IMAZ
2012. The water, supremely chilly, seemed to slowly freeze the outer layers of
my flesh with each progressive lap and yet, as it did it seemed almost
soothing. Cooling, refreshing, healing in many ways.
Over the past 2 and a half weeks I have climbed to the
towers, ridden around the mountain, done my fair share of running, taken a yoga
class and even pressed a little weight (with the help of a near and trusted
friend =) ) . But as of yet I am still goalless in many regards.
I have ideas of what I would like to see with regard to my
health, fitness and training in the year to come but the goals have not been
penned and the decisions have not been made. Guess you could say I have not
committed.
With LTFs big Commitment day ahead of us in the coming month
the word Commitment has been resonating with me lately. What am I ready to
commit to in 2013? What will the new year bring? What do I want to accomplish?
What really matters to me in terms of health wellness and fitness?
These questions swirl in my mind… I know I have so much
potential… how to I tap into it? How do I know that what I choose will be a
success? And as I write this the answers seem to unfold as easy as the
questions… I don’t know.. I won’t know.. and that is ok. Success isn’t the
goal. The goal is in the application, choosing to do something and seeing it
through. Choosing to do something and listening to the subtle cues that arise
within me as the process unfolds. Those subtle cues will lead the way.
In all the busy-ness of setting goals and accomplishing
tasks and finding success lies the gently quietness within each of us that I
would call our truth. Listen to that truth, covet that truth.. it is from that
truth that we find peace, find love, find wholeness, and connection… after all,
isn’t that why we are here in the first place?
So in the end, I guess it doesn’t really matter end goal I
commit to in the new year. What matters is that I pick one and then further
commit to staying alive and awake to my own personal process as the moments of
each day unfold before me.
I encourage you to do the same. =)
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